Although I had email contact with a number of men through PARSHIP, I only met three of them. But the third man was the one for me. We first met on April 1st last year (maybe not the most romantic day of the year!), and since then love has found its way into our everyday life. Both of us work very hard, and we have only limited time to spend with each other. But being part of a couple gives you a real incentive to organise your work so that you have more free time. When I was single, it sometimes seemed preferable to stay at my desk than to go home to an empty house. We are so comfortable with each other, and I really don't know how I'd have met Michael otherwise in this big city.